If a man wants to be a poofter, he has the right to do so unharassed. If a woman wants to be a tomboy, she has the right to do so unharrasssed as well. The article I posted says that 1.7% of the population are physically ambiguously gendered. The number that choose to identify as gay or Lesbian is greater than that.
I am all for treating everyone equally. Let them marry and live their lives as they wish, unmolested by the government or society.