Diamonds in the sky,
Please correct me if I am wrong, but how would this parent not being punished restrict you from helping others that are in the same situation that you were in? (No offence, just an observation)
The second item on your list doesn't seem realistic, given the commandment that says to honor your father and mother, doesn't specify whether they are good or bad.
And as far as the third item goes, nothing can keep you from learning law or anything else you wish to pursue, except your willingness to do so. Laws written by man are never perfect, but to
expect them to be written in our favor would be somewhat selfish, wouldn't you think? (Still, no offence, just trying to be objective.)
Lastly, if you help another person each day, expecting nothing in return, and ask God to remove any shortcomings you might have, you can be a better person, without having to prove anything
to anyone.
P.S. My suggestion would be to choose a career based on your love for it, rather than to try to prove something, and you will never have to WORK a day in your life.