Tell me vyo, how many other situations can you name that you feel you should be allowed to kill someone that reminds you of a severe physical and psychological trama committed against you by ANOTHER person?
Take your time.
And by all means, tell me how suggesting that one should not be allowed to kill someone for the crimes of someone else equals misogyny.
Should be allowed to kill someone that reminds me of that trauma? None. That make me feel like killing someone for that trauma? Quite a few, although there aren't any of them I'd care to discuss.
The misogyny lies in likening a woman's desire to abort a child produced by rape to a simple matter of convenience. It has nothing to do with whether or not that abortion ought to be allowed and has everything to do with understanding the motivation.
What is it if not a matter of convenience.
Lumping abortion in rape cases in with abortion in cases of, say, forgotten condoms is an incomplete likeness. The two cases are similar in that abortions are being performed, and you say abortions are wrong, so that is enough for you. However, the two cases are wildly different for the people who experience them - in the latter, it
is a matter of convenience, whereas in the former, it is a matter of deep trauma and mental health. To liken the two without an acknowledgment of the extreme difference between them is to disregard the thoughts and feelings of women - after all, there is an extreme difference in the thoughts and feelings of rape victims versus those of women who just couldn't be bothered with using protection one night.
It is an oversimplification simply sit back and say, "This is wrong. Don't do it," without taking into consideration some of the motivations for the action. Those motivations don't necessarily make it right, but if you truly wish to solve a problem, you must understand it.