Like it or not, labels are a necessity for the identification of different forms of thought. Using your "logic" names for individuals would be unnecessary. I have often found that those who are most opposed to "labels" fear the exposure such labels would bring. Having said that, it is not the use of labels that is offensive, it is the misuse of said labels.
As to your reasoning about spending, the one reason we do not have any money for various programs is not the war, or the military. It is social programs that eat up about 70% of the budget, and most of those programs are redundent. Do a search of "head start" as an example. What started out as a single program to give lower income children a "leg up" in education now contains some 223 different programs from school lunches, meals on wheels, meals on Indian reservations, etc. All of these programs require bureaucrats for the administration of said program. Take the USDA where there is one bureaucrat for every 12 farmers. Then there are programs like the jobs retraining sector. We now have some 56 different programs most of which are copies of other programs. Again, it is the expansion of the bureaucracy.
Now, "tax cuts" do not cost the govertnment anything. This is another illusion being propagated by the progressive socialist. Kind of like the times they say spending on a program is being "cut" when reality shows it is not a cut in the program, just a cut in the increased spending on that program.
Bottom line, tax cuts do not cost the government a damn thing. What they do is limit the amount of money the government can steal from the wage earner, and limit the amount of money they have to spend, just as tax increases decrease the amount of money the private sector has to spend. And, it is the private sector that will improve the economy through the creation of jobs, not the government who can produce no income on its own. And anyone who believes otherwise is just plain ignorant.
Answer to the debt is to cut spending by government, and increase available income to the private sector. However, this is something this government will never do as long as it is controlled by the Progressive/Socialist in BOTH parties, and not controlled by the people as originally intended.