The rhythm method is somewhat different from NFP. It only requires charting, and is therefore insanely unreliable. NFP by contrast involves measurement of fertility-relevant metrics like cervical mucous and basal body temperature. As I said, properly practiced, NFP is more effective than condoms. Where people get pregnant practicing NFP, it's typically because they couldn't practice self-control and wound up having sex during the woman's fertile period.
You're kidding, right? So, God intended us to invent the thermometer so that women could check the temperature of their vagina before they would give the "okay" sign to their husband to have sex. . . Very romantic, very loving, very stupid! If God had wanted us to have sex ONLY when "the time is right for procreation," HE/She/It would have make men and women feel the "urge" of sexual fulfillment ONLY on the 2 or 3 days when fertilization is most likely!
Well, that's not true -- excess sperm is typically resorbed by the body. But it's also irrelevant; nocturnal emission is a reflex, not a willed action, and there is no moral injunction that accrues to actions over which one has absolutely no control.
Well, I repeat myself! What a wonderful husband you would make! I can only imagine your wife waking up several times a week with a soiled sheet in her own bed, while she patiently checks the temperature of her vagina to see WHEN it will be okay to "collect" that precious sperm inside her instead of on her bed linens! You're so funny! I hope you're doing your own laundry!
Natural law does not require that every sexual act result in conception; only that every sexual act be open to the possibility of it. That means no contraception, no (intentional) extravaginal ejaculation, etc.
That is the natural law for ANIMALS. . .not for Humans! Humans can decide if/when it is wise to bring another child in this world who is already suffering from over population. Even animals, this days are very lucky and considered ABUSED, if they are used for constant procreation! Ever heard of "puppy mills?"
Many good women practice NFP and would settle for nothing less than a man who shares their aversion to meaningless, fruitless
sex.
Sex is not meaningless or fruitless if it brings two people together, if it reinforce their love and commitment to each other, and if that commitment is the mortar that keeps a family to raise the children they already have, or leads them to have children later in their life, when they both feel it is the right time.
You have a very, very low opinion of humans, of love, and of personal responsibility! You seem to believe that the ONLY reason humans are on this earth is to procreate. Are you sure your name is not "John Locke?" I wouldn't be surprised! NO one except that person is that narrow minded.
Conversely, God wants Heaven to be filled with souls. And He wants man to share in the act of creation.
"Heaven?" You are really funny! It doesn't matter how articulate you are, or how much you seem to have study theology. . .you have very little emotional IQ or logical reasoning! So, this "selfish God" would rather let His/Her/Its creation live a miserable life, over stretch his world's resources, and die as quickly as possibly from starvation or illnesses. . .to "fill his heaven with souls?????" Give me a break! He/She/It is GOD! He his end goal was to have a "heaven filled with souls," he would just CREATE SOULS. . .not humans to "harvest" souls! This is almost insulting to God in my view!
Natural desires are good when ordered toward their proper end and enjoyed in moderation. They are not good when enjoyed to excess as an end in themselves, as when one becomes a slave to one's passions.
Well, sorry to inform you of this. . .you are currently a slave of your own passion! You are a slave of hyper religious, and totally misguided morales that have NO PLACE in this world (or in heaven either by the way!).
Personally, as long as I am alive (thanks to a God that is giving, has a sense of humor, and enjoys seeing his/her/its creation HAPPY and fullfilled) rather than be a slave to ANY Church's dogmatic teachings. Actually, I'm not sure that any official Church would be as secterian as what you seem to be. . .
Do you realize that hyper-religiosity is often a sign of a serious mental illness? Many people with schizophrenia turn to hyper religiousity to get comfort!
I have a desire to eat. And I have that desire because it's good for me to eat -- because eating nourishes me. It is not good for me to eat (and eat and eat) and grow fat and unhealthy simply because I like the taste of food. That's wasteful and gluttonous. Likewise, I have a desire to make love to women. And I have that desire because it's part of human nature to procreate. It is good for me to express that desire in a manner most consistent with the end of procreation -- that is, within the bonds of monogamous, marital commitment and without artificially suppressing my or my partner's natural fecundity. It is not good for me to pursue sex as an end in itself, or to sever the act from its end by means of contraception, withdrawal, etc.
Well, with your philosophy. .I'm afraid you'll have great difficulty in finding a "soul sister" to "procreate!"
It is everyone's law precisely because it follows from the objective reality of human nature. You asserting that it is subjective doesn't make it so; if you think it is, kindly demonstrate how.
And many of those religions arrive at identical conclusions, even if they do so through different means. The ones that don't are objectively wrong. Again, if you think this is wrong, kindly demonstrate how.
You have certainly NOT demonstrated to me that you are correct in anyway!
Again, EVERY religion is manmade, and is divisive, which means that it is in fact more AGAINST God's will of unity and happiness than it is working toward God's goal!
The assertion of "arrogance" only follows if I'm actually wrong. And I'm not. Again, natural law is the only moral system that is based on an objective considerations of circumstances outside the human person -- not on subjective nonsense like the individual's feelings, experiences, or intuitions.
Just by stating that, you are demonstrating arrogance! Obviously, you are once again using circular reasoning: You are not arrogant because you are correct in your beliefs, but. . .I still do not see what makes you so sure you're right. . .so, your "non-arrogance" is basically based on your "arrogance" that tells you you are right!. . .nothing more!
You believe that because you have a disordered understanding of what human nature is.
There is a good deal more to morality than "try to avoid deliberately harming other people." It is possible to harm yourself and not even realize it.
If you are condemned to anything, it will be because you condemned yourself -- because you chose to fetishize your impulses instead of conform to the objective good demanded by your nature. God is not in the business of destroying souls but of saving them; and He can only save those souls that wish to be saved
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Sorry, you totally lost me! Too many levels of "circular reasoning" and unhealthy beliefs!
Take care of yourself. . .and please check with a COUPLE of religious leaders you trust to make sure you're okay!