pocketfullofshells
Well-Known Member
I was about to say what you just said: if one does not believe in hell then there is no harm done.
When a Christian tells you that you are going to hell they (hopefully) do not mean it in the way that it is often used which means "I want you to go to hell." but more in the way your doctor means it when he says "you have a growth on your liver."
One difference that I can see is that the doctor has your permission to be involved in your business. I think people should either address discussions of hell to generic discussions about hell and all unbelievers or if talking to a specific person then to have some sort of permission. Getting back to the doctor analogy if a doctor went on TV talking about the signs of liver growths he would certainly be heard by someone who had a sign of liver growths but he would not be imposing himself into their life. And he would also be acting kindly if his patient who asked for help was informed about liver growths. What the doctor should not do is walk up to a stranger on the subway and tell them that he can see that they have a liver growth. Suppose he sat next to that person and struck up a conversation. Suppose he steered that conversation toward a discussion of liver growths? Eventually he might get permission to talk about it. From what you have described your "friends" have taken that approach. You have provided the proof that they are attempting to be sensitive to your right to be left alone.
(As a side note I would point out that anyone on a political forum who engages in a religious discussion has given permission to hear any point of view.)
I have yes, on here...however when people have said things to me at my place of work ( customers) I am not able to say anything back...nor have I given them reason to talk to me about it...let alone basically say I am a immoral person or something to that effect...I just had to sit and take it basically because for some reason telling a ignorant person that they are a idiot and I think there Religion is a Sham...at work, does not go over well.