Then explain the logic of holding a position that could very concieveably put you in a place where you have advocated a thing that you simply can not accept.
Does it really matter whether a human being is a "left over"? How many "left over" human beings are you prepared see killed for a treatment for any given disease? For that matter, how many "left over" human beings would you want to see as the result of IVF?
I don't justify it. I think that it is a terrible mistake. Ethically, I believe that IVF clinics should fertilize one egg and implant it at a time. It would be far more expensive, but if a couple couldn't afford the expense, they could always adopt. I don't believe human beings shoud be frozen indefinately or thawed out and killed for medical research.
My sister in law was severly handicapped. She was in a wheelchair all her life. I knew her for 30 years and never heard her suggest that she would rather not have been born or never existed.