I share your frustration and it is good to see that you are finally acknowledging that there might be a tad more than one or two good Christians among the millions out there.
I rub shoulders with Christians at Church regularly and I find that many of them are pretty much like everyone else (though there are a significant number who really surprise one with just how committed they are to genuine good works). My main fault would be that too many of them fail to rise above, as they are called to, rather than that they are any more bigoted than anyone else.
And every single week the pastor challenges the congregation to be better people in many different ways. So do the pastors around the country have any impact?
Here is an exerpt from an article:
"Atheists and agnostics were found to be largely more disengaged in many areas of life than believers. They are less likely to be registered to vote (78 percent) than active-faith Americans (89 percent); to volunteer to help a non-church-related non-profit (20 percent vs. 30 percent); to describe themselves as "active in the community" (41 percent vs. 68 percent); and to personally help or serve a homeless or poor person (41 percent vs. 61 percent).
Additionally, when the no-faith group does donate to charitable causes, their donation amount pales in comparison to those active in faith. In 2006, atheists and agnostics donated just $200 while believers contributed $1,500. The amount is still two times higher among believers when subtracting church-based giving.
The no-faith group is also more likely to be focused on living a comfortable, balanced lifestyle (12 percent) while only 4 percent of Christians say the same. And no-faith adults are also more focused on acquiring wealth (10 percent) than believers (2 percent). One-quarter of Christians identified their faith as the primary focus of their life.
Still, one-quarter of atheists and agnostics said "deeply spiritual" accurately describes them and three-quarters of them said they are clear about the meaning and purpose of their life.
When it came to being "at peace," however, researchers saw a significant gap with 67 percent of no-faith adults saying they felt "at peace" compared to 90 percent of believers. Atheists and agnostics are also less likely to say they are convinced they are right about things in life (38 percent vs. 55 percent) and more likely to feel stressed out (37 percent vs. 26 percent)."
http://christiancadre.blogspot.com/2007/06/poll-atheists-and-agnostics-are-less.html