Yes, I'm so very jealous of my brother's blocked arteries, his wife's impending lung cancer and their three kids who grew up believing "love" was a shiny new motorcycle.
You nailed me!
It isn't jealousy, it's an abhorrence to absurd gluttony. If they start a small business with that money and employ people, give 'em a tax break. Sure, I'm all for that. Give small businesses good incentive. Just not those households that do nothing with their money but party down in personal gluttony.
For example, I bring in a fraction, a tiny fraction of what they do and yet I still manage to pay all my bills and have just a little bit left over to donate 10% of to charity that supports homeless families trying to get jobs and get back on their feet. My brother and his wife of over 10 times my income give nothing back. Nothing. It might cut into her cartons of smokes or his ribroast budget and well...that's not gonna happen..lol..
You judge your brother and see not the mote in your own eye.
Let's be real HOW MUCH are you into your brothers business that you know his tax return, how much he gives or doesn't give etc... that's freaky dude.