Dawkinsrocks
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But chip isn't saying it is learned.
He is saying it is learned.
He is saying it is learned.
Inculcation is a learning process, not a biological one.I have never said that homosexuality is learned.
You don't have to indicate otherwise, it's obvious that you have been inculcated with religious dogma from birth.I am not of any religious persuasion, and I've never indicated otherwise.
This research has been shown to be flawed and is not accepted by the wider community of scientists and researchers.I've presented the neuropsychological truth that homosexuality is unconsciouslly inculcated from damage incurred from exposure to dysfunction in family-of-origin and related dynamics.
Pretending that terms do not change meanings as human society evolves is a myth, homosexuality is an inculcated taboo, and neither one reperesents anything but a "personal" reality of yours.That's not about myths. That's not about taboos. That's about reality.
Not much more needs to be said about definitive propriety or the sacredness of one word, it's a fallacy no matter how much you find it comforting. The dinosaur comment is an analogy, and an accurate one too. Childish invective? I don't think so.And I have presented the definitive propriety argument that supports upholding Proposition 8.
You can polly-parrot Dawkinsrocks in your misery-loves-company kabal all you want, but your collective unprovoked ad hominems only reveal that you've lost the argument and you have nothing left but childish invectives.
It is highly likely, therefore, that your "dinosaur" comment was a projection.
Because they don't and won't ever exist. The best we can do is work with the reality we have. That tends to be where my feet are planted anyway. Still have my genitals intact at least!what's wrong with working towards a Utopian society? I'm glad that you recognize my intent, but does that mean that you are working against a Utopian society? Why?~Mare
Sihouette;80585]Correct. I do not "know" that.
What I have done is illuminate the links between primate/human social learning, that are real, known and accepted by the scientific community, and the fact that homosexuality is a learned deviance, as many homosexuals themselves will even allude to.
The third postulation, that homosexuals are pleading for homosexuality to become mainstream, and therefore produce more cruising opportunities for their deviance, is inferred.
However, it follows to reason that this is the net result of what will happen given the facts above...whether the attempt is conscious or subconscious on behalf of the homosexual community.
We greater majority, as custodians of reason, and sanity, have taken it upon ourselves to prevent this wilfull/inadvertent agenda from taking roots, growing and becoming part of the very fabric of our society...
As is our right within a democratic society that makes informed (not kneejerk) decisions that affect our collective destinies..At the very least, homosexuals as a group in large will admit that the origins of homosexuality are not fully understood (to them). So we, the majority, have taken it upon ourselves to "err" on the side of caution.
Wow, what a totally defeatist attitude, things are bad and they cannot get any better. I have a dream... I think people are perfectable, that God made us perfectable if we strive for it.lively thread..Because they don't and won't ever exist. The best we can do is work with the reality we have. That tends to be where my feet are planted anyway. Still have my genitals intact at least!
Chip's "inculcation" is correctly appraised if occuring at a young enough age where the personality is still forming.
He cited ages at the oldest of four.
However, my theory suspects that the formative years go on until puberty, at least sexually speaking.
Mare and Dawkinsrocks,
There's nothing more for me to say here to you.
I have told you the neuropsychological truth in a clear and concise manner.
I have presented the reigning definitive propriety support of Proposition 8.
You have both reached a point where it is all about denying obvious reality and issuing unjustified ad hominems in a blatant attempt to smear the character of those with whom you simply disagree.
Therefore I'm placing you on ignore in this thread until you can bring forth new information that makes rational common sense sans ad hominems, during which time I will continue to address others.
Careful, speaking for God could be addicting...you'll invite the christian wingnuts in..lol...I think people are perfectable, that God made us perfectable if we strive for it. ~Mare
This case really does make it very difficult to sift out why this person felt female or male. Clearly it was both. The subsequent abuse is, as in all cases, unforgivable. Again, it would be very very difficult to come to a definite conclusion on where the gender identity fixated.The other case is one I know of personally in which a child was born with both a penis and a vagina, one undescended testicle and one underdeveloped ovary. Her parents, being fundamentalist Christians, desired a son and had her vagina sewed up at birth. They raised this child as a son and never told "him" anything about his history. In Junior High School when "he" started growing breasts the parents beat "him" and demanded that he remain a boy. The abuse was staggering, when I met this person at the age of 28 she had only one functioning kidney, no front teeth, and a permanently injured back from the beatings. She had always felt like a girl, but never mentioned it until she started developing breasts. Away from her parents she got medical help, had her vagina reopened, got counseling, and tried to build a life for herself. She died of leukemia a couple of years later. If anyone was ever inculcated it was this person, but she still knew who she was inside her own head depite the programming.
So now you're trashing Christians too?Careful, speaking for God could be addicting...you'll invite the christian wingnuts in
Can you demonstrate the validity of the comment you just made? Got proof?This case really does make it very difficult to sift out why this person felt female or male. Clearly it was both. Again, it would be very very difficult to come to a definite conclusion on where the gender identity fixated.
Transexuals aren't always this way though.
And you continue to ignore the fact that I had many years of counseling before changing my gender presentation, the psychologists, psychiatrists, and the medical doctors all agreed that I was a classic example of a MtF transsexual.In your case I do suspect an acquired loathing for your own gender, coupled with feeling empathy or projecting idenification with females more than your own gender. A good therapist would've helped you through this.
You know what a "true transsexual" is? Do tell, and how do you know this?Your example is not a true transexual.
Whoa, she had a penis too, and not a vestigial one either. She would have had to have surgery before any heterosexual man would marry her. Intesexed people (hermaphrodite is archaic) have both sets of external sex organs. Transsexual means across the sexual borders, it doesn't mean hermaphroditic. Intersexed people come in many variations, not just one, it's a condition of varying degrees.Your example is one of a hermaphrodite that apparently had more of a tendency to feel female, which is totally acceptable. Choosing her female genitalia already in place and then going on to live as a woman would've been the thing to do with this hermaphrodite. In that case marriage would be allowed in my model anyway, to a man.
Who are you to speak about how God made me? You've never even seen me. I am just the way God made me, somewhere inbetween male and female, born with a birth defect that YOU don't think I have the right to correct because God wanted me to be half and half? Christians fought tooth and nail to prevent doctors from fixing club feet and cleft palates too, they said God made those people that way and He wanted them to stay like that. You are arguing a 200 year old position that you apply selectively ONLY to people YOU think are "deviant". Sorry, you don't speak for God or for the medical or scientific community, nor do you speak for me.You aren't a hermaphrodite so all that can be said is that you're "bucking the system". And that is deviant. It isn't my system. It is God's system...you know, God, the spiritual entity you brought up?
A penis makes a man? You have a very shallow definition. God made me with a female brain complete with estrogen receptors and NO testosterone receptors, I function best from the female perspective, with estrogen in my system. Hormone receptors develop in the body during gestation, we are born with whatever receptors develop, it's not something for which you can be inculcated (see my previous post about the boy made into a girl who rebelled at age 16 and transitioned back to living as a male--despite the fact that a doctor's error had cut off his penis). A penis does not make a man.Speaking of God, didn't God make you a male? Then you changed God's will? Isn't that a bit, omnipotent of you??
The crazy thing is that you ask questions that you think are new and profound. What do you think I did in all those years of counseling? You don't have any idea about what's involved in this process. If a male is forced to live as a female or vice versa, they will come to abhor what they are forced to do. You have no concept that will allow you to understand this if your body and your brain are sex/gender congruent. Let me make an analogy, how would you feel if society forced you to live as a lesbian? (I'm not assuming anything about your sexual preferences, I'm just trying to make a point so fill in which ever gender you are not attracted to.) It's the force that required me to live for most of my adult life as something I was not, coupled with the depression and hopelessness which is a brain chemistry response to cross-gender hormones flooding the brain. It's a biochemical process, hormones and receptor sites in brain.And on a spirtual theme...did it ever occur to you that you may have been put in a male body to show that not all men must adhere to the macho roles you admit that you loathe? You seem to be fixated on roles.
Again, you assume that I did this on a whim, that I'm not only stupid, but deliberately deviant with malicious intent. Why do you think that?You mentioned wanting to dress up in pretty things to feel female. That goes to show that you really don't understand "female", but instead have convinced yourself that roles foisted by society determine what is "female"...and you bought that hook line and sinker. Maybe role-bucking within your God-given gender was your purpose here and you bucked it. What a waste.
Why is it okay for him to buck the roles, but not for me? I deliberately gave up my role as one of the lords of creation-- a MAN--to become what our culture sees as a 2nd class citizen. Not even 2nd class really, just look at how you treat me, I'm a deviant, not deserving of equality with the rest of humankind. Would you like to live that way he did, having to beat others physically to prove you femininity? Don't confuse being comfortable with one's gender role with being the victim of an estrogen-fueled brain in a testosterone-fueled body--they are worlds apart. Why does this bother you so much? Why do you come on like I'm an idiot when it's obvious that I have lived with this all my life and have studied it in depth for more than a decade? Why do you feel that you have to attack me, call me deviant, heap scorn on me, and treat me like sh1t? What do you get from that?I am female and I feel very feminine when I bleed, sweat and strained in childbirth..and the milk staining my shirts when the babies cried...bucking firewood on a fresh Fall day, wearing my loafers and taking the dogs for a run, tipping whiskey at the bar and yes, shopping for new sweaters and blouses... Whatever strikes my fancy. I've always felt sorry for men in that they are definitely more pinned down when it comes to foisted inventories of what constitutes "maleness". I had a boyfriend once, a polynesian man, who walked around in the comfort of our home in a "lala"...a beautiful flowered wrap around skirt/sarang that came about mid-calf. He never wiggled his hips like a girl but was very proud and strong in his "lala". He wasn't afraid in the US, in that little redneck town when his buddies came over and he was in his lala. They knew that if any of them gave him crap about it, he'd sock them in the nose for good measure.
He bucked roles foisted on him and people respected him for it. And he still had a penis. Believe me! And he knew how to use it...lol...
I am female and I feel very feminine when I bleed, sweat and strained in childbirth..and the milk staining my shirts when the babies cried...bucking firewood on a fresh Fall day, wearing my loafers and taking the dogs for a run, tipping whiskey at the bar and yes, shopping for new sweaters and blouses... Whatever strikes my fancy. I've always felt sorry for men in that they are definitely more pinned down when it comes to foisted inventories of what constitutes "maleness". I had a boyfriend once, a polynesian man, who walked around in the comfort of our home in a "lala"...a beautiful flowered wrap around skirt/sarang that came about mid-calf. He never wiggled his hips like a girl but was very proud and strong in his "lala". He wasn't afraid in the US, in that little redneck town when his buddies came over and he was in his lala. They knew that if any of them gave him crap about it, he'd sock them in the nose for good measure.
He bucked roles foisted on him and people respected him for it. And he still had a penis. Believe me! And he knew how to use it...lol...