Well, Num, I think the law of diminishing returns has kicked in. You are not convincing me with your defense of slavery and your hatred of gay men, nor does your desire to continue abrogating the US Constitution on the basis of your personal opinion sway my thinking. Any way we slice it I think you are an angry but intelligent bigot. (Feel free to call me all those nasty names that you have used so frequently--the only disappointment for me is that you didn't come up with any new ones, Hell, my own brothers call me worse things than you did.) Any how...
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Why would I give new arguments if you haven't even begun to scratch the one's I have presented much less refuted them, hmmm?
Perhaps a summation would be in order now that we've both had a chance to post our thoughts a few times.
As if my posts aren't clear enough, you need a summary to further misrepresent?
Human rights are
INHERENT in the human person. It is
NOT given by law or civil society. And so there are laws made to address a specific right and so on. Marital laws are there to protect the
RIGHT OF MOTHERHOOD AND THE RIGHTS OF CHILDREN. They are the basis of family (and the family relations consequent to it) which
IS the fundamental unit of society. It has always been like that, and from the un declarations, should remain like that.
Marriage is NOT merely a contract between two consenting adults. A contract, in its widest meaning is a 'meeting of minds'. Everyone may enter into contract with anyone, by consent ALONE. The terms of the contract determined by the consenting parties ALONE, and binds the consenting parties ALONE.
A marriage, on the other hand, as an institution meant to uphold the right to motherhood and the rights of children, involves persons (children) who never consented, who are incapable of consent, and utterly dependent on the family they are born in.
My position remains that the US Constitution guarantees all consenting adults equal protection under the law--not just the majority, every consenting adult should receive the same treatment under the law. THAT is how it should be.
The good thing about the law is that it does not suffer the idiocy of dishonest people pushing for a ridiculous agenda.
From the above explanation, a homosexual union does not meet the
FORM AND SUBSTANCE of a marriage - hence a marriage of homosexuals is superfluous and an utter waste of the state's time and efforts. The ends for which homosexuals want to live their particular lifestyles are amply covered by the laws on contracts. Your alleged 4000+ privileges accorded to married couples are those that pertain to motherhood and children - aspects that are
ABSENT in a homosexual union.
I'm curious though about what you think would happen if gay men were allowed to marry (you never speak about lesbians so I suppose you can't make them fit into your scenario for some obscure reason).
Lesbians may exercise their choice to get pregnant, thanks to the advances of science and regardless of the sexual choices she makes. However, the family relations that result from marriage - more specifically, fatherhood, cannot be assumed to apply to her partner. To assume such a thing violates the right of the child.
Answer me this if you can: Pretend (I know you're good at pretending) that every single gay guy on Earth got married. Now all of them are living in tiny cottages with tea roses around the front gate. What happens now? Will all heterosexual fecundity disappear? Will you no longer be able to achieve an erection? Will women no longer be fertile? What do you see happening? Cataclysm? End of the world stuff? Why are you so afraid?
What are you talking about?????
I don't give a rat's ass how another person lives his life. What I am concerned are the logical consequences of an irrational law. The thing about the law is that it is dependent on precedents to guide it. An irrational law will only produce more irrational precedents until such time that such irrationality becomes so glaring, it causes a legal crisis of monumental proportions.
You want an example of this? Slavery for one. It was an economic necessity and a political expediency at the time, nobody bothered to worry about its moral consequences and rational validity. And so, it took a civil war to correct and generations of embedded and calcified prejudice.
And here you are, asking for the same irrational law, with no more justification than it would make a minority feel happy about the choice they make.
My guess is that what will happen is what has happened in the countries that already have gay marriage: Nothing. Nothing has happened, some gays got married, most didn't, men can still get hard-ons, women can still have children. You have been hysterical about FECUNDITY so what do you think will happen to it?
The scenario you are depicting isn't dependent on the marital institution. A lot of gay men would have sore behinds, with or without gay marriages.
I'm for equal rights for all, nothing for the Nums of the world that others don't get and nothing for others that the Nums don't get. White, black, brown, yellow, blue, straight, gay, tall, short, hairy, or bald, we all get the same legal rights as everyone else.
I don't even know why I need to dignify this statement since you haven't given a right denied to homosexuals to begin with.
And as far as rights go, they do not come from the choices we make. Just because someone prefers sex in a certain way doesn't give him the right to motherhood, nor does his choice subvert the right of a child.
What about you? Can you sum up succinctly, cogently, and without a lot of bolds and underlines?
You haven't answered a single point in my argument and you have the temerity to ask me this. What ineffable nonsense!
Does a homosexual man have the right to motherhood, as defined in the various un declarations?
Isn't the right of access, co-ownership, inheritance/estate, etc. obtainable through other legal instruments, affidavits or statements?
Is there a right to adopt?
Is there any compelling reason why the state is obliged to attach a legal impetus to an otherwise unhealthy and hazardous sexual choice?
Isn't your freedom to choose this lifestyle enough, you have to obtain the government's stamp of approval through a particular law that has no basis, whatsoever?
You didn't answer before, you wouldn't answer now - except through some more idiotic rhetoric that is irrelevant to the question.