Where did I say that? Or are you insinuating that adultery is ok for the man, not for the woman?
They are equal with different responsibilities of which none is more important then the other. As to "barefoot and pregnant" that is again a misinterpretation of scripture determined by the "Christian" patriarch mentality. Read Proverbs 31: 16-31, Luke 16: 18 "Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery." , 1Corinthians 11: 11, 12
Don't know where you got va-va-Jay at since the Hebrew word for woman is "Ishshah" a derivative of the word for man. Now, while the Hebrew word for property, "segullah", meaning possession, or property, is in the feminine tense it does not refer to women.
Va-va is slang for "vagina" while Jay in Hebrew means "He Who Supplants", or "The Lord is Salvation".