Purgatory is not about paying a cost for your sins. It’s about being purified. Like gold. If our behavior could save us we would not need Jesus’s sacrifice, you agree I think.
I don’t know what your personal issues are but here is a list of mine
Prideful Hot temper Passive aggressive Stubborn Bossy Like to win Like to be right Like to argueI might have jealousy, I’m still trying to figure out if I have that one or not I can be spiteful And I am sure there is much much more
But none of those qualities can come with me to the next place… If we bring those things with us the next place wouldn’t be any better than this place. Like gold I need to be refined in the fire till all that remains of me is the pure and good parts that moves on to the next place.
There won’t be any room for jealousy or bossiness or a stubborn attitude. I must be rid of that first. But time in purgatory or being purged from my inadequacies doesn’t make me saved, Jesus’s sacrifice did that. It’s not about being saved it’s about being refined.
Zechariah 13:9
New International Version (NIV)
9 This third I will put into the fire;
I will refine them like silver
and test them like gold.
They will call on my name
and I will answer them;
I will say, ‘They are my people,’
and they will say, ‘The Lord is our God. ’”
There are other references besides this one regarding purifying us but I just got off work and I’m dead dog tired J I could look some up later