Is homosexuality a choice or is it genetic?

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If this was true, then there would not be so many different interpretations of law around the world. Your idea that there is one set of rational principles is obvious nonsense, look around at the world, hardly any two peoples agree on what's rational. Even scientists don't operate with a predictable rationality. You are arguing for a standard that does not exist.

LOL.

Do you think the decisions of the supreme court to be vague, ill-concieved and without any rational basis?

And have you not heard of international law, a clear and unquestionable point of consensus among peoples of the world?

One of the things that gives away your bigotry is your incessant attacks on gay men, what about gay women? Are you going to tell me that there are no gay mothers? Hello?

And where have I asserted such a thing, eh?

Have I not said 'natural fecundity inherent in the FEMALE GENDER'??? And is a homosexual woman not of the female gender??? And are you saying that a woman in a homosexual union is capable of exercising here natural fecundity WITHIN THAT UNION???

Please do not ascribe labels to me if you are incapable of comprehending my posts in the first place.

As a matter of fact, I think this fictional "right to motherhood" should be given to anyone who wants the role.

Fictional? Do you consider your inalienable rights fictional? Does it not strike you that the word 'motherhood' is gender-dependent - hence inapplicable to the opposite gender?

Lots of gay male couples have children (by surrogate mothers or adoption)

You wish the natural fecundity of a woman to become subservient to financial remuneration??? And what of the child in question??? You wish to alienate a human being from his natural mother just so gay men can play at parenthood???

and your bigoted insistence that they should be punished and their families don't deserve equal protection because YOU don't like them is indefensible bigotry.

Where exactly have I suggested that homosexuals be punished for their sexual preference, hmmm?

What's absurd is that YOU think you should be able to define the roles that other people play in THEIR lives. That's just as bigoted and stupid as any Bible-beater ever was. Who appointed you the arbiter of who does what? Part of it stems I'm sure from your apparently total lack of education in issues biological since you left high school.

Do they teach the right of motherhood for men in college biology or is there some gay school for that?

There is nothing logical in YOU defining what other people can and can't do. The way you present it, all it takes to be a mother is the biological equipment. That is the narrowest definition possible, and it's the very narrowness of your position that proves your bigotry.

Easy for you to say genetic adaption when it suits your purpose. But when a specific biological trait (such as the reproductive system) is required, you cry bigotry to high heaven.

The 'biological equipment' of women, as you put it, comes with the necessary maternal predisposition, the same kind of predisposition you pretend to be present in gay men. Sewing this 'equipment' on gay men won't endow them with the fecundity of the female gender.

You have called me a bigot for more times than I can ignore. And I have no intentions of suffering the opinions of a misguided and ignorant fool.

Yeah, right. Just another one of YOUR definitions that you expect everyone else to subscribe to--sorry, you are just one more person trying to force others to obey your interpretation.

I never said the female reproductive system constitutes motherhood in its entirety. It is, however, its MINIMUM REQUIREMENT.

Only a fool with an absurd agenda would pretend men to have a right to motherhood.

Horsepuckey! Standards of good and evil are as malleable as the billions of people who think them up. The idea that human civilization is even a good thing is still not a certainty.

For someone who can't see the good in human civilization, you are desperate enough for its validation. You are sinking in a quagmire of stupidity of your own making.

I wasn't aware that I was legislating the personal choices of consenting adults, that's what you are doing by legally limiting the rights of some while giving those same rights to others for NO CLEARLY DEMONSTRABLE REASON.

Marriage is not about what hole you stick your penis in. And your insistence on reducing a vital institution in society to something akin to that says so much about the level of your comprehension.

Sell silly someplace else.

I think that children should be protected, that's why I think that all parents should have the same rights and protections as all others--even parents who cannot have biological children and have to adopt or use surrogate mothers. These children are no less valuable just because you hate queers.

You pretend to protect children and yet have no qualms in using women as commodities, eh? If that is indicative of your notions of 'protection', the world would be better off without it.

This is a perfect example of hateful bigotry, you lash out in an emotional frenzy against gay men--not a word about lesbians--and you maintain in your invincible ignorance that these are just people who made a choice. Perhaps you could tell us how you came to decide to be a heterosexual? Did you experiment with gay sex first? Or was your heterosexuality just something that you always knew? Did your sexual interests come naturally to you?

I am arguing for the right of motherhood for WOMEN. A lesbian IS a woman who may still exercise this right through OTHER MEANS. And what is in vitro fertilization if not an exercise of the right to motherhood, eh?

No amount of in vitro anything would make a man concieve. Do you know why or do I need to spell it out for you? And does it make one a bigot by asserting this FACT?
 
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According to the GAO there are more than 1049 rights and privileges reserved for legally married people in this country. Since only gay men are not able to experience "motherhood" (as in gestation, birth, and nursing) but lesbian women are, then it is only a very small percentage of the people you are bent on discriminating against. So, yes, there are a lot of things denied to people who are not legally married. If you want the list go to:(http://www.gao.gov/archive/1997/og97016.pdf)

If you have even a modicum of critical thought, then you can very well discern propaganda from fact.

Out of the 1049 alleged rights, remove those that pertain to children, remove those that can be had through legal forms and a little forsight - and what exactly are you left with, eh?
 
If you have even a modicum of critical thought, then you can very well discern propaganda from fact.

Out of the 1049 alleged rights, remove those that pertain to children, remove those that can be had through legal forms and a little forsight - and what exactly are you left with, eh?

Once again you bring a false issue into cloud the discussion, you know as well as I do that there are millions of gay people with children and you are Hell-bent on denying them the same legal rights that you claim for yourself.

You won't be able to address this, but if you look around the world you will find whole countries where gay people are given the right to marry and and motherhood in those countries has not been affected. Gay marriage has no effect on women who wish to marry and raise children. The whole idea of a sacred "motherhood" right that will be destroyed or damaged in some obscure fashion that you have yet to delineate is nothing but an arguing ploy of yours.

One of the things that is denied to people who cannot legally marry is the right to be legal family. If a lesbian woman's partner is hurt in an accident she may not be allowed to see them, she can be denied any access at all by the injured woman's blood family. Married people are legally family and there is no question about their access. This is a quote from my previous email which you did not--but should have--addressed. This is an important issue that not enough people recognize.
 
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If this was true, then there would not be so many different interpretations of law around the world. Your idea that there is one set of rational principles is obvious nonsense, look around at the world, hardly any two peoples agree on what's rational. Even scientists don't operate with a predictable rationality. You are arguing for a standard that does not exist.

NUMINUS said:
LOL.
Do you think the decisions of the supreme court to be vague, ill-concieved and without any rational basis?

And have you not heard of international law, a clear and unquestionable point of consensus among peoples of the world?

Glad you asked, Num. Let's look at the Supreme Court and the Dredd Scott decision that affirmed black people's right to be slaves. Pretty rational, don't you think? And maybe ill-conceived too? You keep appealing to some kind of "universal" standard which does not exist.

There is an "international law" but we should remember that our country has opted out of that law in many cases (George Bush's secret torture prisons and our refusal to allow our soldiers to be tried in the World Court for alleged war crimes) and it is in no way an accepted standard by everyone. You have a fantasy that allows you to justify your bigotry and like most bigots you cling fiercely to it despite the fact that it has no more substance than a drug dream.
 
And where have I asserted such a thing, eh?
Have I not said 'natural fecundity inherent in the FEMALE GENDER'??? And is a homosexual woman not of the female gender??? And are you saying that a woman in a homosexual union is capable of exercising here natural fecundity WITHIN THAT UNION???

Please do not ascribe labels to me if you are incapable of comprehending my posts in the first place.
No place in your diatribes have you made any suggestion that lesbian women and their children be given government protection. You have been foursquare against gay marriage--with no caveats for lesbians. Are you changing your tune?

Your demand that a lesbian woman only gets to exercise her right to motherhood if she does it YOUR WAY is bigotry. Lots of sterile hetero couples get help outside of their union, so are you demanding that they and their children be denied legal protection too?

Fictional? Do you consider your inalienable rights fictional? Does it not strike you that the word 'motherhood' is gender-dependent - hence inapplicable to the opposite gender?
You are in the forefront on this site of being opposed to the inalienable rights guaranteed to all under the US Constitution, so where do you get off giving me flack? Your definition of "motherhood" is fictional, it exist only in your mind. You think that only women who do it according to the parameters set forth by the infallible Num should be allowed legal rights. That's the fiction.

As to the opposite gender being given motherhood rights, I say that anyone who is doing the work of mothering should applauded for it, but then I don't have your very narrow, fictional definition of motherhood.

You wish the natural fecundity of a woman to become subservient to financial remuneration??? And what of the child in question??? You wish to alienate a human being from his natural mother just so gay men can play at parenthood???
I wish people to be able to pursue their happiness. I don't intend to tell other women how they have to practice or use their "natural fecundity". If a woman wishes to bear children for money or religious reasons or just for the Hell of it, it's not my place to tell her she is wrong. I think that children should be protected. Your offensive and idiotic statement about gay men playing at parenthood is an excellent example of your ignorance and bigotry.

Where exactly have I suggested that homosexuals be punished for their sexual preference, hmmm?
Every time you call for them to be disenfranchised, denied their Constitutional rights, denied equality under the law, and disciplined with punitives measures for not living up to YOUR standards then you are attempting to punish them. When you deny them the right to have families because they don't do it the same way that you do, you are attempting to punish them.

Do they teach the right of motherhood for men in college biology or is there some gay school for that?
False issue based your personal definition. You hate gay men and you want to hurt them. It's called bigotry.

Easy for you to say genetic adaption when it suits your purpose. But when a specific biological trait (such as the reproductive system) is required, you cry bigotry to high heaven.
More obfuscation, thank you. This is what you do when you can't think of anything useful to say.

The 'biological equipment' of women, as you put it, comes with the necessary maternal predisposition, the same kind of predisposition you pretend to be present in gay men. Sewing this 'equipment' on gay men won't endow them with the fecundity of the female gender.
You are the only one defining motherhood and maternal predisposition as being found only in women, you do this so that you can attack gays. You haven't got any rational arguments, give it up, admit that you are a bigot and I will try to respect you for your honesty.

You have called me a bigot for more times than I can ignore. And I have no intentions of suffering the opinions of a misguided and ignorant fool.
Let's all note that Num didn't deny being a bigot, perhaps my comment above struck a chord in him.

I never said the female reproductive system constitutes motherhood in its entirety. It is, however, its MINIMUM REQUIREMENT.
Once again we are treated to the definitions of the infallible Num, who sees fit to prescribe for all of humanity. I suspect that your swollen ego may be obscuring your vision if you think you are in a position to announce "minimum" standards for everyone else's practice of motherhood.

Only a fool with an absurd agenda would pretend men to have a right to motherhood.
Only a fool would think that he can prescribe proper behavior for all of humanity.

For someone who can't see the good in human civilization, you are desperate enough for its validation. You are sinking in a quagmire of stupidity of your own making.
I didn't say that I could not see value in civilzation, I said that it remains to be seen if it is really a good thing. Unlike you, I do not need to pass judgment on everyone and everything.

Marriage is not about what hole you stick your penis in. And your insistence on reducing a vital institution in society to something akin to that says so much about the level of your comprehension.
Unlike yourself, I'm not restricting marriage to one penis/hole combination, only YOU are trying to do that. I'm happy for any people who share love to enjoy the rights and privileges of legal union. You exclude, I include.

Sell silly someplace else.
See answer above.

You pretend to protect children and yet have no qualms in using women as commodities, eh? If that is indicative of your notions of 'protection', the world would be better off without it.
I have qualms about using any sentient being--including animals--and nothing in what I wrote said that I thought women should be used as commodities. I, however, would give women the right to do as they feel they should, I don't have any desire to restrict their ability to practice their motherhood anyway they choose--even if they are lesbians or they wish to be surrogate mothers. Again, unlike yourself, I know some women who have been surrogate mothers and they have gained an extended family by doing so, they have also brought great joy and happiness to others. You would deny this to people on the basis of YOUR narrow definitions and punish those who transgress. Bigotry.

I am arguing for the right of motherhood for WOMEN. A lesbian IS a woman who may still exercise this right through OTHER MEANS. And what is in vitro fertilization if not an exercise of the right to motherhood, eh?

No amount of in vitro anything would make a man concieve. Do you know why or do I need to spell it out for you? And does it make one a bigot by asserting this FACT?
It's entirely irrelevant, your narrow definition is the only thing that you can see. Try to look beyond that and see real people trying to live their lives happily with the people they love, some of them wish to raise families and I think they should have the right to do so--just like you do. You wish to prevent others from having what you have because of fear and ignorance which equals: Bigotry.

Just for the sake of the discussion, what do you think will happen if every consenting adult is given equal rights to life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness--including equal protection under the law? Do you really think that all heterosexual people will become queer? Or become sterile? What frightens you so much that you are driven to hate like this? And hate it is when you set out to deny to others the very things that bring the greatest joy into your own life.
 
Once again you bring a false issue into cloud the discussion, you know as well as I do that there are millions of gay people with children and you are Hell-bent on denying them the same legal rights that you claim for yourself.

You cloud it yourself.

Tell me - of the millions of children with gay parent(s), how many were concieved within a homosexual union? While one may flip-flop as to his/her preferred form of sex, motherhood and the family relations that ensue from it did not change, did it?

Only when they CHOSE TO EXERCISE THEIR NATURAL FECUNDITY did they obtain inalienable rights over their own children, no?

And for the record, how can I deny a right and claim it to be inalienable at the same time, eh? Your lies are so obvious, it is beyond ridiculous.

You won't be able to address this, but if you look around the world you will find whole countries where gay people are given the right to marry and and motherhood in those countries has not been affected. Gay marriage has no effect on women who wish to marry and raise children. The whole idea of a sacred "motherhood" right that will be destroyed or damaged in some obscure fashion that you have yet to delineate is nothing but an arguing ploy of yours.

You are a liar.

How can you honestly claim that motherhood is not affected when, by your own admission, gay men resort to surrogate mothers, eh? Not only do you deny motherhood and the child's right to grow in his natural mother's care, you propose to achieve this through a FINANCIAL TRANSACTION.

Gay women, (if you insist on mentioning them on equal footing) have a right to motherhood, in WHATEVER MANNER she sees fit to exercise this right.

One of the things that is denied to people who cannot legally marry is the right to be legal family. If a lesbian woman's partner is hurt in an accident she may not be allowed to see them, she can be denied any access at all by the injured woman's blood family. Married people are legally family and there is no question about their access. This is a quote from my previous email which you did not--but should have--addressed. This is an important issue that not enough people recognize.

I have already told you - visitation rights may be granted before hand. How is this different from a special power of attorney, eh? If one can convey a right over one's personal affairs as powerful as this, what is stopping anyone from granting visitation rights in the event of injury? And do you need a special law for this?

Your argument is so naive, a grade school retard might as well have written it.
 
Glad you asked, Num. Let's look at the Supreme Court and the Dredd Scott decision that affirmed black people's right to be slaves. Pretty rational, don't you think? And maybe ill-conceived too? You keep appealing to some kind of "universal" standard which does not exist.

What nonsense.

Where exactly is the error - the interpretation of the law or the law itself Can one make a rational interpretation of an irrational law?

And yet, you insist on making laws that have no rational basis.

There is an "international law" but we should remember that our country has opted out of that law in many cases (George Bush's secret torture prisons and our refusal to allow our soldiers to be tried in the World Court for alleged war crimes) and it is in no way an accepted standard by everyone. You have a fantasy that allows you to justify your bigotry and like most bigots you cling fiercely to it despite the fact that it has no more substance than a drug dream.

You deliberately misrepresent my posts to suit your own agenda. The FACT that international law exists is a manifestation of the existence of RATIONAL PRINCIPLES THAT OUGHT TO GOVERN ALL. That the us refuse to conform to these principles does not invalidate this fact.
 
I think you will discover that calling someone a liar is against Forum rules.

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Originally Posted by Mare Tranquillity
You won't be able to address this, but if you look around the world you will find whole countries where gay people are given the right to marry and and motherhood in those countries has not been affected. Gay marriage has no effect on women who wish to marry and raise children. The whole idea of a sacred "motherhood" right that will be destroyed or damaged in some obscure fashion that you have yet to delineate is nothing but an arguing ploy of yours.

Numinus said:
You are a liar.

But since you did...
Numinus said:
Gay women, (if you insist on mentioning them on equal footing) have a right to motherhood, in WHATEVER MANNER she sees fit to exercise this right.

You can't have it both ways--either women have the right to exercise their motherhood as they see fit (for money or love or religion, and you have no proof that any surrogate mother did what she did JUST for money, but even if she did, you should note that you gave gay women the right to exercise their right as they see fit (so I assume you extend that to other women).

So, what I said was true if women have the right to exercise their motherhood any way they see fit, then doing it for money is within their province. To imply that this in any global way affects the right of motherhood is just another one of your vapors.
 
So, Num, let's leave off this argument because most of it is just me tearing apart your boilerplate prose anyway.

I more or less know what you are arguing, but what I don't know is WHY. Perhaps we could move this forward if you would explain to all of us on the site what it is that YOU think will happen if homosexual people are given the same rights that all the rest of the consenting adults already enjoy.

No florid flights of philosophical fancy please, just tell us in nuts and bolts, everyday language as plainly as you can exactly what you see happening and why.
Mare
 
I think you will discover that calling someone a liar is against Forum rules.

It is against forum rules to state a fact? When someone lies, as you did, doesn't that, in fact, make you a liar? No wonder you are averse to facts and logic!


But since you did...


You can't have it both ways--either women have the right to exercise their motherhood as they see fit (for money or love or religion, and you have no proof that any surrogate mother did what she did JUST for money, but even if she did, you should note that you gave gay women the right to exercise their right as they see fit (so I assume you extend that to other women).

What are you talking about????

IT IS IMMORAL TO TREAT THE HUMAN PERSON AS A COMMODITY. AND WHEN A WOMAN SUBVERTS HER SEXUALITY AND NATURAL FECUNDITY FOR STRICTLY FINANCIAL CONSIDERATIONS - DOESN'T THAT, IN FACT, MAKE SUCH A PERSON AN OBJECT OF TRADE? HOW DO YOU SUPPOSE IS THAT DIFFERENT FROM PROSTITUTION OR THE NOTORIOUS ORGAN TRADE?

So, what I said was true if women have the right to exercise their motherhood any way they see fit, then doing it for money is within their province. To imply that this in any global way affects the right of motherhood is just another one of your vapors.

How long do I need to repeat something for the light of logic to penetrate that dark place that is your mind?

There is NOTHING in the human experience to suggest that selling one's offspring to a stranger is anything that resembles motherhood.

Nor does such a transaction uphold the RIGHT OF THE CHILD.

All these, according to you, can be made CONTINGENT TO A PRETEND HOMOSEXUAL RIGHT????

Sell silly someplace else.
 
So, Num, let's leave off this argument because most of it is just me tearing apart your boilerplate prose anyway.

I more or less know what you are arguing, but what I don't know is WHY. Perhaps we could move this forward if you would explain to all of us on the site what it is that YOU think will happen if homosexual people are given the same rights that all the rest of the consenting adults already enjoy.

No florid flights of philosophical fancy please, just tell us in nuts and bolts, everyday language as plainly as you can exactly what you see happening and why.
Mare

http://www.un.org/Overview/rights.html

Article 16.

(1) MEN AND WOMEN of full age, without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family. They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.

(2) Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses.

(3) The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by society and the State.

Article 25.

(1) Everyone has the right to a standard of living adequate for the health and well-being of himself and of his family, including food, clothing, housing and medical care and necessary social services, and the right to security in the event of unemployment, sickness, disability, widowhood, old age or other lack of livelihood in circumstances beyond his control.

(2) Motherhood and childhood are entitled to special care and assistance. All children, whether born in or out of wedlock, shall enjoy the same social protection.

http://www.hrweb.org/legal/child.html

Article 8

1. States Parties undertake to respect the right of the child to preserve his or her identity, including nationality, name and family relations as recognized by law without unlawful interference.

2. Where a child is illegally deprived of some or all of the elements of his or her identity, States Parties shall provide appropriate assistance and protection, with a view to speedily re-establishing his or her identity.

Article 9

1. States Parties shall ensure that a child shall not be separated from his or her parents against their will, except when competent authorities subject to judicial review determine, in accordance with applicable law and procedures, that such separation is necessary for the best interests of the child. Such determination may be necessary in a particular case such as one involving abuse or neglect of the child by the parents, or one where the parents are living separately and a decision must be made as to the child's place of residence.

2. In any proceedings pursuant to paragraph 1 of the present article, all interested parties shall be given an opportunity to participate in the proceedings and make their views known.

3. States Parties shall respect the right of the child who is separated from one or both parents to maintain personal relations and direct contact with both parents on a regular basis, except if it is contrary to the child's best interests.

4. Where such separation results from any action initiated by a State Party, such as the detention, imprisonment, exile, deportation or death (including death arising from any cause while the person is in the custody of the State) of one or both parents or of the child, that State Party shall, upon request, provide the parents, the child or, if appropriate, another member of the family with the essential information concerning the whereabouts of the absent member(s) of the family unless the provision of the information would be detrimental to the well-being of the child. States Parties shall further ensure that the submission of such a request shall of itself entail no adverse consequences for the person(s) concerned.

Article 21

States Parties that recognize and/or permit the system of adoption shall ensure that the best interests of the child shall be the paramount consideration and they shall:

(a) Ensure that the adoption of a child is authorized only by competent authorities who determine, in accordance with applicable law and procedures and on the basis of all pertinent and reliable information, that the adoption is permissible in view of the child's status concerning parents, relatives and legal guardians and that, if required, the persons concerned have given their informed consent to the adoption on the basis of such counselling as may be necessary;
 
I see no point in any of what you're saying, this in no way denies anything to homosexuality. nor provides any furtherance of what you contend as truth. I see no point in your post.
 
I see no point in any of what you're saying, this in no way denies anything to homosexuality. nor provides any furtherance of what you contend as truth. I see no point in your post.

Neither does Num, you should see how he mangles physics with his religious perspective. Tee hee.:D
 
I see no point in any of what you're saying, this in no way denies anything to homosexuality. nor provides any furtherance of what you contend as truth. I see no point in your post.

Do not worry yourself unnecessarily. I do not expect comprehension to dawn on you in the forseeable future anyway.
 
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Neither does Num, you should see how he mangles physics with his religious perspective. Tee hee.:D

Only a ***** would mistake my posts to be of a 'religious perspective'.

And for the benefit of the low-brows still vainly struggling in this thread, the information provided above represents the BASIS OF ANY MARITAL INSTITUTION. It provides the clear and logical IMPETUS for the legal recognition of marriage and family relations by the state.

And so, to uphold the rights of the human person stated above, any contemplation of marriage NECESSARILY involves the union of MAN AND WOMAN.
 
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