When I worked for Sun, I worked with several Muslim engineers. All of them highly educated, all of them very distraught over the activities of islamic extremism. I'd have to do some research to show you as it was explained to me (A great portion of the bible is told from a chronological standpoint of a point in muslim history. This large section encompasses many of what people consider to be the tenants of islam. Where the fact is much of what Mohhamad said that people should do was directed at his followers of that time, and NOT to people now, since it was related directly to the situation contextualized in the book)
The problem with your point is that you're missing a lot of the reality. To use the ever popular christian vs. muslim argumentative for a moment, there is plenty in the bible that states you should be killed for 100 different offenses. Let me quote;
1) Anyone arrogant enough to reject the verdict of the judge or of the priest who represents the LORD your God must be put to death. Such evil must be purged from Israel. (Deuteronomy 17:12 NLT) ** how does this differ from your argument on disagreement with Ji'had in your sense of the argument.
2) If one curses his father or mother, his lamp will go out at the coming of darkness. (Proverbs 20:20 NAB)
2b) All who curse their father or mother must be put to death. They are guilty of a capital offense. (Leviticus 20:9 NLT) ** Every single teenager in the US should die, right?
3)If a man commits adultery with another man's wife, both the man and the woman must be put to death. (Leviticus 20:10 NLT) ** not even going to go there.
4) "If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives." (Leviticus 20:13 NAB) ** A favorite of the westboro baptist nutjobs I'm sure and due to (1) you have to agree with them.
5) A priest's daughter who loses her honor by committing fornication and thereby dishonors her father also, shall be burned to death. (Leviticus 21:9 NAB) ** Sucks for priests daughters
6) Whoever sacrifices to any god, except the Lord alone, shall be doomed. (Exodus 22:19 NAB) ** Let me point out the obvious retort here to your statement
Muslims who want to peacefully coexist with people who worship anyone other than allah are by definition, bad muslims.
7) But if this charge is true (that she wasn't a virgin on her wedding night), and evidence of the girls virginity is not found, they shall bring the girl to the entrance of her fathers house and there her townsman shall stone her to death, because she committed a crime against Israel by her unchasteness in her father's house. Thus shall you purge the evil from your midst. (Deuteronomy 22:20-21 NAB) ** Sounds like something you hear all the time from the extremist countries, but wait, this is the bible NOT the qu'ran...what gives?
8) Make ready to slaughter his sons for the guilt of their fathers; Lest they rise and posses the earth, and fill the breadth of the world with tyrants. (Isaiah 14:21 NAB) ** sure hope your dad was a good guy =\
I could go on. But then I'd just be rehashing the same ideas from these previous quotes. There is a lot of issue with religion, the literalization of the words, and so on.
The biggest issue is not the religions, christianity or islam, both have the same ability to become misinterpreted (or maybe correctly interpreted if the original authors felt that killing people so blatantly was the right thing. but who knows?) Both are very near equal in their call to culling the ranks of those who do not believe or who disapprove or approve of certain behaviors. So how does one insure that the murderous followers of any said religion do not become the majority?