If you look back in my posts, you'll see where I discuss thoroughly how I believe sexual preference is manifested in youth. You will read and see that I talked about how homosexuality is part of natural drive that has been skewed by environmental conditions that taught the individual to vent their sexual urges toward the same gender. With herd animals it often results from frustration of the sexual urges and inability/fear/whatever to reach the opposite gender to find relief. And once the preference has been shunted, change is nigh impossible.
THIS is PRECISELY why I think gay marriage shouldn't be. Get it yet? It is BECAUSE gayness arose from probably the most powerfully formative natural urge there is (sex) in its purest form, to copulate with a member of the opposite sex. Yes, we DO know that sex is for creating offspring. That is a fact. You never would've developed the nerve endings in your genitalia that give you such pleasureable sensations if not for evolution's little hook of getting you to reproduce yourself by seeking pleasure "down there". When you start humping doorknobs, animals, vegetables, kids, or members of the same gender to experience those sensations, then you can be categorized as "deviant" from the original intent of sex. That is a fact and I will boldly speak for it.
I'm talking purely about science here and not introducing religion like some people...(rhymes with "Dandy"
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And another thing I will speak boldy of as fact is that we know, for a fact, that human's learn socially by example's set. You may succeed in befuddling, baffling and backing-off some timid adults by insisting "normalizing" homosexual behavior via the blessing of marriage isn't going to result in other deviances...but kids are smart. If there's one thing they can sniff out a mile away it's adult hypocrisy. They are all taught in school about biology, the evolution of sex and that it is for procreation. If you go and try to set another example that sex is for physical pleasure...where do you set the limit for how that person acheives that pleasure? Hmmm?? Once you legitimize sex outside the bounds of beyond procreation (implied: as between a man an a woman) and throw it into the very large arena of "for physical pleasure", you kick the barn door open for all other types of justification of sex "for physical pleasure"....and my oh my what a pandora's box that is...pun intended...
That's why "Don't ask, Don't tell" is so appealing....because I DO recognize that homosexuality has arisen from a natural urge gone awry. And once it's there, it's there. Like they say, "we're here and we're queer". And people should not descriminate against the handicapped, disabled, or anyone else who has a condition that was not of their choosing.