Like I said, so what is your idea? If you say we cant attack them, and hey will not attack....sooo nothing is the plan? I dont see to many other options. And of course they are pissed, but letting them be not pissed and the terrorist and taliban be happy is not a option. If we have good intel on high leval targets, take them out.
My plan is to not run cross border raids in Pakistan and talk about them. You can run raids, just stop telling the world you are doing it.
Aside from that, we will rarely have good intelligence on much of anything. If you are sitting around waiting for good intel to come in, it will be a long wait.
What is not an option in my mind is being the spark that collapses Pakistan and puts nuclear weapons in an extremists hands.
Our plan should be this:
1) Run raids if we must, but deny, deny, deny.
2) Aggressively support the current Pakistani government in maintaining military operational control over their weapons.
3) Put a plan in place to raid all known Pakistani nuclear facilities on a moments notice. While we do not know where they all are, if Pakistan fails we will need to get what we can.
4) Bring India into the discussion. If Pakistan fails, India will be in a very delicate situation. If India is in a delicate situation you can assume China will be in one shortly as well.
The point is this: What good does killing Bin Laden do you if it means putting a nuclear weapon in the hand of a radical?
The plan certainly should not be to tell the Pakistani government that we are going to operate on their side on the border.