What Should Marriage Be?

I didn't think so. It is one of the most important pieces of literature in the English language. You should read it.

I am not particularly fond of orwell. Maybe some other time.

Clearly, once a child is born, the parents have an obligation to that child that surpasses any other obligation or desire that they might have.

I submit that the responsibility exist from the moment the possibility of having a child exists.

Clearly, the couple does not have a duty to produce a child in the first place, unless they are living in the kind of society described in the work I cited above.

The source of this duty comes from NATURAL LAW, NOT ANY POSITIVE LAW.

This duty can be discerned from one's biological functions. It is up to the person's reasoning faculties to determine the manner in which this duty is fulfilled.

Clearly, I have no desire to live in such a society, do you?

Of course not. No positive law can determine how to exercise the human functions in my own person.

This has nothing to do with the operation of natural law.
 
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That explains a lot. A primary example of the dumbing down of America.

I'm not an american.

I suppose you haven't read your Shakespeare either? Lewis Carrol? Sir Francis Bacon? Charles Dickins? Aristophanes? Plato?

And I suppose you haven't read locke, hobbes and rousseau. It would be embarassing for a foreigner to educate you on the political philosophy your country is currently using.
 
Don't be silly. They can make whatever statutes laws ordinances whatever that they want to make as long as it is within their proscribed lowers.

Apparently, ff is the silly one. He thinks congress and the state legislatures cannot make laws that are not directly related to those enumerated in article 1 section 8.

That is crazy thinking. If the congress tomorrow decided to make all women sex slaves we wold not have to wait until it was challenged to know that it was unconstitutional. It would be unconstitutional the moment they did it. It would just be unchallenged until it was challenged.

That is correct. However, that function resides in the supreme court -- not your own intuition. And the judiciary can only act on matters submitted to it.
 
I am not particularly fond of orwell. Maybe some other time.

No, I really didn't understand his works very well when I was in high school either.

I submit that the responsibility exist from the moment the possibility of having a child exists.

And I submit that you have nothing at all to back up your opinion.

The source of this duty comes from NATURAL LAW, NOT ANY POSITIVE LAW.

Unsupported opinions are still worthless, even when stated in all caps and bold. Maybe especially when stated in all caps and bold.

This duty can be discerned from one's biological functions. It is up to the person's reasoning faculties to determine the manner in which this duty is fulfilled.

Or whether or not it should be fulfilled. Animals cannot reason, and are subject to a biological imperative to pass their genes on the next generation. Human beings are able to reason, and decide for themselves whether or not to pass their genes on. It's one of the things that separate humans from the rest of the animal kingdom.

Of course not. No positive law can determine how to exercise the human functions in my own person.

This has nothing to do with the operation of natural law.

If you haven't read Orwell, how do you know what kind of society he was describing?
 
The courts have rules for a long time that the interest of the state is that provisions for the continuation of the species is in the state interest.

All you are posting here is homophobic blah blah blah. Check a calender. It's 2008.

I haven't seen Massachusetts falling off the map and won't see California either because of fully recognized gay marriage.

Nor in any of these entire countries...

Belgium
Canada
Netherlands
Norway
South Africa
Spain

There is so much relevant stuff going on in the world to worry about. Gay people being married isn't one of them. Live and let live... it hurts no one.
 
No, I really didn't understand his works very well when I was in high school either.

Too bad for you.

And I submit that you have nothing at all to back up your opinion.

Have you been catatonic for the entire argument in this thread?

There is a right to marry and found a family in the udhr. There is a right to motherhood in the same declaration.

A RIGHT ALWAYS ENTAILS RESPONSIBILITY.

Unsupported opinions are still worthless, even when stated in all caps and bold. Maybe especially when stated in all caps and bold.

Are you unfamiliar with the concept of natural law? Do you intend for me to explain the concept here?

Or whether or not it should be fulfilled. Animals cannot reason, and are subject to a biological imperative to pass their genes on the next generation. Human beings are able to reason, and decide for themselves whether or not to pass their genes on. It's one of the things that separate humans from the rest of the animal kingdom.

The imperative EXISTS whether you choose to fulfill it or not. And the imperative governs ALL living creatures, whether you admit it or not.

That is why its called NATURAL LAW.

If you haven't read Orwell, how do you know what kind of society he was describing?

I said:

"Of course not. No positive law can determine how to exercise the human functions in my own person.

This has nothing to do with the operation of natural law."

Did it seem to you I was talking about orwell?
 
All you are posting here is homophobic blah blah blah. Check a calender. It's 2008.

I haven't seen Massachusetts falling off the map and won't see California either because of fully recognized gay marriage.

Nor in any of these entire countries...

Belgium
Canada
Netherlands
Norway
South Africa
Spain

There is so much relevant stuff going on in the world to worry about. Gay people being married isn't one of them. Live and let live... it hurts no one.

It is evident that one needs to explain things to you from the very beginning.

According to the udhr, the family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society. The proof of this is quite self-evident.

Everyone was born from a mother and a father. All human societies in all nations (this includes higher order animals as well) are built on the nuclear family.

A homosexual union is NOT a family within the meaning of the udhr. If it were, then a human society may be made of entirely gay or entirely lesbian unions -- since, it is the fundamental group unit of society and it is a human right, after all. But one need not be an einstein to figure out that such a human society is simply going to die out since it has no means to perpetuate itself.

What you have arrived at is a UNIVERSAL HUMAN RIGHT, THE CONSISTENT EXERCISE OF WHICH RESULTS IN THE DEMISE OF SOCIETY.

Which proves the initial proposition.

Furthermore -- the right to marry and the right to found a family are integral and inseparable aspects of the same natural law -- that of the perpetuation of human society.

You claim that the right to marry, in and of itself, and independent of the purpose of founding a family, is a valid human right. This sort of thinking gives you the impetus to change the definition of marriage to suit your homosexual unions.

If that were so, then the ONLY basis of marriage is that of the consent of the intending spouses. That rational individuals consent to such an agreement, presumably, for personal gains that are reciprocal. That an agreement entered into by mere consent maybe dissolved by the same. In essence -- it is a contract.

Using this particular logic, a homosexual union is as much a marriage as, say, the relationship between a prostitute and her patron. But we all know, prostitution is NOT a human right nor is it even legal in most parts of us. And even if we were to remove the illegal aspects of such a contract, there is still no reason for the state to interfere in this particular contract, nor legislate marriage and family law since they are amply covered by the laws of contracts.

Which proves the initial proposition.
 
All you are posting here is homophobic blah blah blah. Check a calender. It's 2008.

I haven't seen Massachusetts falling off the map and won't see California either because of fully recognized gay marriage.


I didn't say they would. In fact if your go back and read what I wrote I said that I did not think this stuff was significant. When I posted that this was the justification that the state gave people asked me to show it.

Now that being clarified again, will there be any negative effects from the state endorsement of gay marriage? There might be.

Endorsing gay marriage would be a large experiment and the results would probably not be know for many years. (I just can't help but think that there is probably a reason that so many societies around the globe and throughout history have arrived at the conclusion that not only was gay marriage not to be endorsed but that homosexual behavior itself wasn't to be tolerated. It is too simple and just inaccurate to blame religion. And even spurious sinced most who blame religion beleive that it has come to be from social evolution as well) And just like in any experiment. Especially one involving children, the burden is on the experimenter to convince those who hold to the status quo that the experiment itself will in all likelihood not be harmful. A start has been made in this area but more research is still needed.
 
Too bad for you.



Have you been catatonic for the entire argument in this thread?

There is a right to marry and found a family in the udhr. There is a right to motherhood in the same declaration.

A RIGHT ALWAYS ENTAILS RESPONSIBILITY.



Are you unfamiliar with the concept of natural law? Do you intend for me to explain the concept here?



The imperative EXISTS whether you choose to fulfill it or not. And the imperative governs ALL living creatures, whether you admit it or not.

That is why its called NATURAL LAW.



I said:

"Of course not. No positive law can determine how to exercise the human functions in my own person.

This has nothing to do with the operation of natural law."

Did it seem to you I was talking about orwell?

Obviously, you weren't talking about Orwell, since you haven't read his works.

You're an expert in "natural law", now? Please do, explain how it obligates human beings to procreate, and how that pertains to homosexuals, who naturally are attracted to members of their own gender, and how this natural law dictates that they must resist their own natural inclinations. While you're at it, let's have a discussion of just what the carrying capacity of the Earth might be for human beings, and at what point we need to limit our own numbers.
 
I'm not an american.

And neither was Orwell (Eric Arthur Blair) you blithering IDIOT!! Don't you read any of the classic writings of your fellow Subjects?

However, that does go a LONG way towards explaining your abysmal lack of knowledge and understanding of the US Constitution, and the history behind it. For a while there I was under the impression you were just a product of the modern "Ejukashun Sistum", but now I find out that the reason you don't know anything about the Constitution is that you're obviously one of those "one world order" SOCIALISTS.

And I suppose you haven't read locke, hobbes and rousseau. It would be embarassing for a foreigner to educate you on the political philosophy your country is currently using.

Of course I have, as they were REQUIRED reading when I was in school. If you HAVE read them (which I seriously doubt) it's obvious that their words failed to penetrate your DU lined skull.
 
numinus;51266]It is evident that one needs to explain things to you from the very beginning.

According to the udhr, the family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society. The proof of this is quite self-evident.

Everyone was born from a mother and a father. All human societies in all nations (this includes higher order animals as well) are built on the nuclear family.


And so you must have noticed that animals are not married and are getting along just fine. So the premise is "marriage" is totally unnecessary to a relationship. I agree. But if it is to be recognized for some legal purpose than any two adults should be treated fairly and equally. "Natural Law" is no more than whatever someone wants to believe it is or in other words... mumbo jumbo.

No one is saying that anyone and obviously not everyone is going to go into a gay relationship hence not be able to bear children. For your argument to have any validity at all we would have to also agree that any sterile man or woman could not be in a marriage because they too do not reach your breeding philosophy. It's silly...


A homosexual union is NOT a family within the meaning of the udhr. If it were, then a human society may be made of entirely gay or entirely lesbian unions -- since, it is the fundamental group unit of society and it is a human right, after all. But one need not be an einstein to figure out that such a human society is simply going to die out since it has no means to perpetuate itself.

And yet I bring you back kicking & screaming to the fact that a mere word "marriage" does not change or alter any behavior in anyway. So if people all wanted to be gay and kill off society not giving the people a piece of paper changes nothing. Hence... it's mumbo jumbo yet again. ;)

Gay marriage hurts no one. It actually promotes monogamy and theoretically lessen the chance of the spread of various STD's.

This is much like the abortion argument. Don't want a abortion... don't have one. Don't want to be gay & get married... don't be gay & get married. The rub is when someone demands to impose their values or opinions onto others not of a like mind.

Allowing people to find their own way is what America is all about.
 
Actually, it is in the udhr:

Article 16.

(1) Men and women of full age, without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family. They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.

(2) Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses.

(3) The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by society and the State

From the article, the purpose of a marriage is clear -- to found a family. Therefore, a union between two people of the same gender is not a universal human right.

I know. I'm saying it does not extend, as FF says, to include "everyone" any more than it extends to "everything."

My right to marry does not mean I am entitled to marry a man, or a fish, or a lamp.

OK, this has gotten BEYOND silly

You're telling me. :rolleyes:

Nowhere in Article 1 Section 8 does it grant Congress the authority to legislate on MARRIAGE, period, end of discussion

Sure, so the authority is relegated to the states and/or the people, as per the Tenth Amendment.

Once again, your entire argument is predicated on a warped reading of the 14th Amendment -- which requires that states recognize rights enumerated in the Constitution. One such right is the right of states to legislate on things the federal government is not entitled to legislate on, like marriage. I do not know why you don't get this.

The States, like the Federal government, may not legislate on anything that infringes on our INDIVIDUAL LIBERTY.

You cannot even fulfill the relatively simple task of listing specifically what states could legislate on under your scheme, and then you get frazzled when I decline to take you seriously? Come on now.

Once again -- no one has ever taken your interpretation of the 14th Amendment seriously, because a plain reading of the 14th Amendment suggests there is no basis to do so. If we accepted the argument that states cannot legislate on anything the federal gov't cannot legislate on, and the federal gov't is entitled to legislate largely on areas in which it is the sole competent legislative authority (for instance, national defense), then states are more or less powerless, no?

You're operating under the mistaken impression that our Rights are ONLY those things specifically enumerated in the Bill of Rights

Hahah, no.

Circulus in demonstrando. I DO require you to refute it, and present actual evidence that supports your position or that you simply admit that you're wrong.

Hello? There is zero jurisprudence supporting your contention. How am I to go about disproving a negative, hm?

And at any rate, when has the burden of proof ever fallen on the defendant, hm?

So it's your contention that marriage is NOT a basic human Right?

Sure it is. But it does not extend to include whoever or whatever you want.

In the same vein, I have a right to practice medicine. But I don't have a right to practice medicine I am not qualified to practice, now do I?

If you can take possession of Mars, then by all means, it's YOURS.

And one day, I will. But that does not mean the Constitution entitles me to it just because I say so and no can prove otherwise.

Actually, the only idiocy seems to be yours. There is NO definition of the words "husband" or "wife" in any LEGAL dictionary.

Then I suppose the roles don't actually exist, huh? :rolleyes:

He uses the terms "hufband and wife" but he does not DEFINE any particular sex to either of those terms.

Because sexual distinction is intrinsic to those terms. Why should anyone be required to append a glossary of terms to their works just because boneheads centuries later cannot sort out their meanings on their own?

It is not reasonable to "assume" ANYTHING.

Then explain how two men can reasonably be expected to bear children.

You can divorce for any reason at all, or none at all these days, so what's your point?

Not really.

I know exactly what a strawman is, just as I know exactly what a bigot is, and you ARE a bigot, because you don't have even one rational argument to support your blind prejudice.

Clearly, you don't know what the words "bigot" or "prejudice" mean, either. :rolleyes:

My disapproval of "homosexual marriage" does not conflate with disapproval of homosexuals.

What surprises me is that you post stuff like this and then accuse others of posting strawman arguments.

Allowing people to find their own way is what America is all about.

Who is arguing to the contrary? :rolleyes:
 
Sure, so the authority is relegated to the states and/or the people, as per the Tenth Amendment.

And since 1868, the States have been obliged to refrain from making "any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States". So, even using your supposition that marriage isn't a right, it IS a privilege, and the 14th Amendment clearly states, the States many NOT abridge (deprive) anyone of their privileges, including marriage.

Once again, your entire argument is predicated on a warped reading of the 14th Amendment -- which requires that states recognize rights enumerated in the Constitution. One such right is the right of states to legislate on things the federal government is not entitled to legislate on, like marriage. I do not know why you don't get this.

Because it's not supported by the Constitution, THAT'S why. The 14th TRUMPS the States 10th amendment right to "...abridge anyone of their privileges...". The 14th specifically demands that "nor shall any State...deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws". Please note the words "ANY PERSON". If you are going to allow ANYONE the Right to marry in your State, you must allow EVERYONE the Right to marry. You may not discriminate against blacks by telling them that they may not marry whomever they chose simply based on race, and you may not discriminate against homosexuals by telling them that they may not marry whomever they choose based on sexual orientation.

You cannot even fulfill the relatively simple task of listing specifically what states could legislate on under your scheme, and then you get frazzled when I decline to take you seriously? Come on now.

It was a Red Herring, and I'm not interested in playing that silly game. Frankly, the list of things that HAVE been legislated upon, at the federal, state, and local level, that are extra-constitutional is too long to begin to enumerate, so I simplified it for you.

Once again -- no one has ever taken your interpretation of the 14th Amendment seriously, because a plain reading of the 14th Amendment suggests there is no basis to do so. If we accepted the argument that states cannot legislate on anything the federal gov't cannot legislate on, and the federal gov't is entitled to legislate largely on areas in which it is the sole competent legislative authority (for instance, national defense), then states are more or less powerless, no?

Then I would suggest you attend a few Constitutional Law classes in a major University, and you'll see a LOT of people, including Judges (former and current) and Professors (and no, not just the liberal ones either) who have the same interpretation that I do. In fact, it was while auditing Con Law classes that I gained a much deeper respect for, and understanding of, the Constitution than most non-lawyers can grasp.

Hello? There is zero jurisprudence supporting your contention. How am I to go about disproving a negative, hm?

Your saying it doesn't make it true, which is why I pointed out that you'd made a circular argument. You claim that my position is highly unfounded, therefore it should be EASY for you to establish precedent that supports your allegation. There is AMPLE precedent in support of mine, you simply choose to ignore it.

The Constitution does not address abortion either, so using your HIGHLY FLAWED logic, the States should be able to legislate on it as they see fit, yet in 1973 SCOTUS determined that the State of Texas did NOT have the Right to prohibit a woman from having an abortion. The Constitution does not address any government educational Establishment so using your HIGHLY FLAWED logic, the States should be able to legislate on it as they see fit, yet in 1954, and again in 1958 SCOTUS ruled that little black children HAD to be allowed into an "all white school". The Constitution doesn't say anything about agriculture, so using your HIGHLY FLAWED logic, the States should be able to legislate on it as they see fit, yet it is firmly established law that ALL growers in the United States must pass FDA testing and abide by FDA regulations. As I said, my list is long, and distinguished and you have yet to present anything except lame rhetoric.

And at any rate, when has the burden of proof ever fallen on the defendant, hm?

AH, but you are acting as the prosecution. It is YOU who is denying their Rights, therefore it is YOU who must present sufficient Constitutional ground for such a denial, and you have failed to do so.

Sure it is. But it does not extend to include whoever or whatever you want.

To whomever, yes it does, to whatever, no it doesn't (unless you can get your sheep, or whatever else you want to marry, to legibly sign the license, and say the vows, in plain English, which unless you're planning on marrying Mr. Ed, pretty much renders that silly point MOOT.)

In the same vein, I have a right to practice medicine. But I don't have a right to practice medicine I am not qualified to practice, now do I?

Yet another Red Herring. The practice of medicine, in the modern sense, is not now, nor has it ever been a "basic human right", HOWEVER, the application of basic first aid IS covered by that "basic human right".

And one day, I will. But that does not mean the Constitution entitles me to it just because I say so and no can prove otherwise.

Uh, I was being nice there, but since you missed that one too, the Constitution doesn't APPLY TO MARS!! Ergo, if you CAN take it, it's YOURS.

Then I suppose the roles don't actually exist, huh? :rolleyes:

Of course the roles exist, but they are not gender specific in the original language since the word "husband" is 13th century English which means "manager" or "steward". How many "stay at home Dads" are there today? How many women are the real "bread winners" in their families? If we are to use the original meaning of the word "husband", then the "stay at home Dad" is the wife, and the "bread winning" woman is the husband.

Then explain how two men can reasonably be expected to bear children.

The same way barren women do it, through a surrogate. Don't you ever watch the Science Channel?

Not really.

Not much of an answer, but I really didn't expect one.

Clearly, you don't know what the words "bigot" or "prejudice" mean, either. :rolleyes:

My disapproval of "homosexual marriage" does not conflate with disapproval of homosexuals.

What surprises me is that you post stuff like this and then accuse others of posting strawman arguments.

I know PRECISELY what they mean, and you've exhibited EACH AND EVERY CHARACTERISTIC of both. You've failed repeatedly to present even one logical, cogent, or even Constitutional basis for your bias, you've steadfastly stood by your belief, even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary, and yet you still persist in trying to deny other human beings of their GOD GIVEN RIGHTS. If that's not bigoted and prejudiced, I'd be hard pressed to define them.

Oh, and one other thing before I forget; it took you nearly a WEEK to come up with this weak garbage?:rolleyes:
 
And neither was Orwell (Eric Arthur Blair) you blithering IDIOT!! Don't you read any of the classic writings of your fellow Subjects?

Eh?

You comment about me being american and when I say I am not, you fault me for it? When you describe a 'dumbing down' of america, you are succintly describing yourself. You can fault no one for it but yourself.

And if you cannot be bothered to educate yourself about your own government, then chances are, someone will do it for you.

However, that does go a LONG way towards explaining your abysmal lack of knowledge and understanding of the US Constitution, and the history behind it. For a while there I was under the impression you were just a product of the modern "Ejukashun Sistum", but now I find out that the reason you don't know anything about the Constitution is that you're obviously one of those "one world order" SOCIALISTS.

I am constantly amazed at how ignorant the average american is of the political theory behind their own government -- as I am amazed at yours.

The us constitution is entirely consistent with john locke's treatise. One could have lifted the treatise in its entirety and come up with a government exactly like yours.

It is a simple enough exercise to demonstrate how your interpretation of your constitution departs from the principles stated in locke's treatise -- hence WRONG.

Of course I have, as they were REQUIRED reading when I was in school. If you HAVE read them (which I seriously doubt) it's obvious that their words failed to penetrate your DU lined skull.

Reading doesn't mean comprehending, now, does it? The commonwealth and sovereignty were amply discussed in ALL the social contract theories. How come you are ignorant of them, hmmm?
 
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Obviously, you weren't talking about Orwell, since you haven't read his works.

You're an expert in "natural law", now? Please do, explain how it obligates human beings to procreate,

There is a fundamental difference between liberty and freedom.

Liberty is doing what one can concieve of doing. In the state of nature, liberty is limited only by the individual's personal force. That kind of liberty is said to be a perfect liberty.

Freedom, on the other hand, is doing what is consistent with a set of rational laws which are logically joined to a set of rational ends. As such, freedom invariably is limited by the operation of reason, hence an imperfect liberty.

I'm sure you do not have a problem understanding that the perpetuation of the species is a rational end. What you have difficulty understanding is that the process of procreation does not stop from human reproduction. It necessarily involves providing the conditions by which the species can perpetuate itself. Couples should not only reproduce as they wish. They need also consider the conditions under which their offsprings can be raised in a manner suitable for human existence. Hence planned parenthood.

and how that pertains to homosexuals, who naturally are attracted to members of their own gender,

A sexual attraction towards members of the same gender has NO rational purpose for human society. Nor is it a natural function of the human condition.

and how this natural law dictates that they must resist their own natural inclinations.

Natural law does not 'dictate' one to resist their natural inclinations. It only states the means to a logical end -- that sex with the same gender would not manifest natural human fecundity. What this act accrues to, is a purpose that is ENTIRELY PERSONAL.

While you're at it, let's have a discussion of just what the carrying capacity of the Earth might be for human beings, and at what point we need to limit our own numbers.

And why should we discuss this, hmmm?
 
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