"i dont think the books and brainwashing are to make people gay but its to make people believe what they have decided is good right and normal
or I guess re writing morality for everyone."
I have a feeling that it was the intent of the people who designed the programs for public schools, to teach kids about same-sex-couples, was to teach tollerance. However that is asking too much. If a kid lives with parents who are hard-core anti-gay, I think that no ammount of teaching in the public school will change the fact that the kid will grow up with an anti-gay bias.
I would rather see an effort to educate ALL citizens on the subject of rule of law. You see its possible for any employer/business/buyer/seller (etc...)
to make a decission on who they are interviewing or about to do business with and if some bigot doesn't want to buy/sell, or whatever with anybody, gay, straight, black, brown, (etc...) then really there is NOTHING that the LAW can do about it, sure people get sued and all sorts of crazy things happen, but it doesn't change anyones attitude, and what the teaching in the public schools seeks to do is change attitudes but they are fighting a loosing battle. In time, maybe attitudes with change, however change will take generations to accomplish and meanwhile in the schools, they are wasting valuable time trying to do the impossible.
My thought on this is that as long as any given grounp (bigots or whatever)
doesn't resort to violence, or fraud, ... whatever they think, they have a right to, someoone can say, "oh, I don't do business with anyone who is not a member of the same church" ... ok, no big deal, they are limiting themselves and I have no problem with that.
I personally would refuse to do business with someone if I knew they where an active member of a satanic cult. And I have a right to my opinion.
You can think anything you want, and you can act in a manner that reflects your thinking to a point, as long as you do not practice violence (or fraud) against any given person or group, the law should be silent on the subject.
Just like at some coffee shops I have seen a sign that sez
"We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone"
.... in God we trust, everybody else pays cash!