Gay Marriage: Exploring the Closet

Sihouette

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Every story has a beginning. Every movement a origin. Since gays are all about identifying themselves via sexuality as a "minority group" pleading for rights to marry/adopt and come out in same gendered barracks in the military, I thought we should explore the beginnings of sexuality.

There has been some speculation that homosexuality has its genesis in molestation. Below are excerpts from a law-enforcement specialist about everything you didn't want to know about the profile of child molestors. In summary, they are sneaky, and seek to seemlessly weave into the adult social mileu surrounding their targets. Their goal is to access children by making their approach to them seem benevolent to other adult onlookers who would otherwise alert to danger.

The incidences of child molestation are significantly underreported. It is thought to be much more rampant than most people believe to be possible. So much so that it may have started a movement?
 
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...The preferred age bracket for the child can also vary. One pedophile might prefer boys 8 to 10, while another might prefer boys 6 to 12...
The Big Gay ice cream guy mentions an age group specifically "7-12 year olds", when everyone knows children of all ages love ice cream, especially very little ones. In his August 8, 2009 interview, http://www.biggayicecreamtruck.com/press/ he identifies his clients though as between 7-12. Odd.. as is the total vacuum of pictures of kids licking his cones on his website in front of his "Big Gay Ice Cream" truck.
Skilled at Identifying Vulnerable Victims Some pedophiles can watch a group of children for a brief period of time and then select a potential target. More often than not the selected child turns out to be a high-risk target from a dysfunctional home or the victim of emotional or physical neglect. This skill is developed through practice and experience.
I hear the trend with gay couples nowadays is to adopt high-risk orphans..or those of color coming from situations or nations of neglect. Hey, at least those kids aren't going to State-supervised foster homes.. [a common homosexual-hopeful adoptive parent retort]

It can be important to determine why the child did not disclose sooner and why the child did disclose now. A well-documented, convincing disclosure, especially a spontaneous one with no secondary gain, can be corroborative evidence. The fact a victim does not disclose the abuse for years or recants previous disclosures might be part of a pattern of behavior that in fact helps to corroborate sexual victimization. The documentation of the secrecy, the sequence of disclosures, the recantation of statements, and the distortion of events can all be part of the corroboration process. Child victims who engaged in compliant behavior may exhibit many of
the characteristics (e.g., denial, delayed disclosure, ever-changing allegation, lying) understandably associated with false allegations...
Whenever I bring up the subject of molestation as the genesis for a homosexual's origins, they invariably, and usualy heatedly retort back that they "were NEVER molested or approached in any way" as a child.. I dare you. Go to a gay debate somewhere and bring up molestation as a theoretical genesis and watch the unanimous lineup of denial against you..

..Understanding the Seduction Process
Most child victims in multiple-victim-exploitation cases were seduced or groomed over time.....I have given many presentations describing the dynamics of multiple-victim cases and seduction techniques of preferential child molesters (pedophiles). After many of these presentations, adult male members of the audience have approached me in private and admitted they were victimized as boys. Most stated they had never before told anyone of their victimization, but were now able to tell because they realized I understood the problem and they were not the only ones so victimized...

..In a relationship founded on seduction, the most likely threat is not to use force or violence but to withhold attention and affection or end the relationship...

..The dynamics of their victimization must be considered. They are embarrassed and ashamed of their behavior and rightfully believe society will not understand their victimization. Many younger child victims are most concerned about the response of their parents/guardians and often describe their victimization in ways they believe will please their parents/guardians. Adolescent victims are typically more concerned about the response of their peers..

..Before beginning the interview the investigator must understand the victim
may have many positive feelings for the offender and even resent law-enforcement intervention. Because of the bond with the offender, victims may even warn the offender. Even the occasional victim who comes forward and discloses may feel guilty and then warn the offender. They may even return to law enforcement with a hidden tape recorder to try to catch the investigator making inappropriate comments or using improper interview techniques. Reluctance to disclose may be more due to affection for the offender than to fear of the offender...

..Not being judgmental,
as with developing rapport, may be much more difficult with a delinquent adolescent who actively participated in his victimization. Investigators often nonverbally communicate their judgmental attitude unknowingly through gestures, facial expressions, and body language. The victim must come to understand any truthful answer is acceptable, including “because I enjoyed it.”..
[This little boy sporting an $80 adult-applied botique "face" complete with subtle eye shades and lipliner and a "come-hither" pose supposedly believes his penis is a mistake..reports his daughterless-mother..who probably has the credit card that bought all the trappings for his room..yes, this is a little boy..http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=3088298&page=1 ]
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..The investigator must communicate to the victim he or she is not at fault even though the victim did not say no, did not fight, did not tell, initiated the sex, or even enjoyed it. When the victim comes to believe the investigator understands what he experienced, he or she is more likely to talk...

..In the absence of some compelling special circumstance, the interview of a child possibly seduced by an acquaintance molester should never be conducted in the presence of parents/guardians. The presence of the parent/guardian increases the likelihood the child will just deny or give the socially or parentally acceptable version of the victimization...

..If all else fails the investigator can try the no-nonsense approach. No matter what the investigator does, most adolescent boy victims will deny they were victims...

..After disclosing, some victims will later recant or change their stories.
The offender may also continue to manipulate the victims after investigation and disclosure. The offender may appeal to the victim’s sympathy. He may make a feeble attempt at suicide to make the victims feel guilty or disloyal. Some offenders may threaten the victims with physical harm or disclosure of the blackmail material. Some offenders may bribe the victim and his family. Even after they disclose and testify in court, some victims then recant and claim they perjured themselves. Although in some cases the recantation may be valid, it is most likely the result of blackmail, feelings of guilt about the offender being in prison, or shame over their behavior...

..Understanding the Preferential Offender
Preferential sex offenders may be “pillars of the community” and are often described as “nice guys.” They almost always have a means of access to children (e.g., marriage, neighborhood, occupation) Determining their means of access helps identify potential victims...
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Men sexually attracted to young adolescent boys are the most persistent and
prolific child molesters known to the criminal-justice system. Depending on howone defines molestation, they can easily have dozens if not hundreds of victims in a lifetime. They usually begin their activity when they are teenagers themselves and continue throughout their lives as long as they are physically able.

...Not all parents/guardians react the same way to the alleged sexual victimization of their children. Some are supportive and cooperative. Others overreact, and some even deny the victimization. Sometimes there is animosity and mistrust among parents/guardians with differing reactions. Some parents/guardians even rally to the support of the accused perpetrator...
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...There can be great frustration when, after a thorough investigation, an investigatoris convinced something traumatic happened to the child victim but does not know with any degree of certainty exactly what happened, when it happened, or who did it. That is sometimes the price we pay for a criminal-justice system in which people are considered innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt...
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And then of course there is the entire issue of gays supposedly not being attracted to the opposite gender.

"Confusion" would be the word I would use to describe these gay men at a pride parade..

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An interestingly enough, vicitms of molestation often describe their reality as "confused" [paraphrased]

Another source of confusions for victims of child sexual abuse is not being sure exactly what happened to them when they were abused. Sometimes it is difficult for a young child to understand just what is happening when the abuse takes place. Later this makes it hard to remember exactly what did happen. Sometimes victims who do understand what is happening try to block out memories of the sexual abuse. Other times this happens without much effort.

It is important for you to have a clear picture in your mind of exactly what happened to you. This will help reduce some of the confusion you feel about your experiences.

Go over the events that took place in your own mind. How did the abuse start? How long did it continue? What kinds of sexual acts did the abuse involve? Who abused you? How did the abuse end? What happened then?

It may be very unpleasant for you to think about these things, but knowing exactly what happened is important. When you are sure of what happened, you don’t feel so confused. If you have difficulty remembering just what happened, going over the events in your mind or talking about them with someone else may help you remember.
Remembering forgotten events can be a frightening, even terrifying, experience. You may want to seek help from a professional counselor during this process, especially if remembering causes you substantial emotional pain. A professional counselor can probably suggest other ways to help you remember forgotten or confused events, and can provide much needed support at this difficult time. http://www.cleananpress.com/abuse/recovery.htm
 
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Sorry, the link to the second post here is this:

From a detailed report by law enforcement about child predators and syndromes associated: http://www.missingkids.com/en_US/publications/NC70.pdf

It cut off the first part which was this:

Planned, Repeated, or High-Risk Attempts Bold and repeated attempts to obtain
children or molestations that have been carried out in a cunning and skillful
manner (i.e., neighbor beginning seduction in front of child’s parents/guardians,
teacher molesting children during class in a room full of students) are a strong
indication the offender is a pedophile.
..yeah, like BIG GAY ice cream and THE SALTY PIMP [black, chocolate dipped] cone for them to put in their mouths and lick.. http://www.biggayicecreamtruck.com/goodies/

Very frustrating here with editing time limits..arrgghh!
 
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